I Just Have To Know

Submitted as a comment on Signs of Mediumship:

Oh wow… I can relate to quite a few of these signs! I’ve been spoken to a few times in the past few weeks, sometimes the speaker is malevolent sometimes not so. Sometimes I go into older buildings and get the feeling that “something is there” and then I turn around and it’s gone. I often get a feeling of coldness beside me, and when I look the area around it is all distorted. I can totally relate to the “being in your own little world” parts too! And as for the dreams… well, I’ve dreamt about this girl, and I’d like to discuss it. Sorry if I listed too much, but I just have to know: am I a medium?

You are indeed a medium as well as an empath, and clairaudient.

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Any Idea What is Going On?

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Hi Beth, I have had a strange experience for the second time.  The first time was several years ago but recently I was when I was in a building I am very familiar with I had a very strange feeling and a series of “memories” comes over me.  I can interact with other people but it is like a film in my head.  I do not recognize these thoughts.  After it is over I can’t remember anything and I have a terrible headache.  I have looked all over the Internet and I can’t find anything like it described.  Any idea of what is going on? I should say this has happened several times in the same building within the past couple months. The first time years ago, it also happened several times in another building but I just quit going there.

Thank you for your question! You are both a medium and a clairvoyant. The memories belong to a ghost who is trying to communicate with you. This was also the case in the other building. It was just a different ghost associated with a different place. These abilities can be further developed to the point of your having more control, rather than it having control over you!

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The Power of Music


Music is healing. Any musician, or singer realizes that early on as they find themselves turning to playing their musical instrument of choice, or using their own voice to release their own pain. Most even at some point come to realize they can even help heal others with their musical creations.

I began playing the piano at a very early age, as well as singing in church choir, and later learned to play the alto saxophone through public school. Although I always knew in playing music there was solace, release, and healing, as I often turned to it when needing to lift myself, it was not through my own playing that I learned the immense healing power of music. It was through my own child with autism.

My youngest son lost speech, eye contact, and attention span around 21 months. The early intervention therapist had one visit with him, and instructed us to get to a pediatric neurologist right away, as she knew immediately this was classic autism.

Everyone seemed to have a grim outlook. Most were telling us he would most likely not regain speech, and if he did, it would never be as it should be. I heard stories of how these children who lost speech triumphed over one day being able to say a few words here and there, and that we should rejoice with any improvement, but not to keep our expectations too high. I was told by the neurologist after waiting months to see him that we would just have to wait and see whether he would be high functioning or low functioning. He was officially diagnosed as Language Disorder with Autistic Features, or as the neurologist informed us, better known as autism spectrum disorder, as his very verbal older brother was diagnosed with Asperger’s Syndrome the very same day.

I was unwilling to accept he would be non verbal for the rest of his life. I could see the soul inside, and I knew he had so much to say.

During this time while he was not communicating at all, we noticed that each time he heard music, he began to move his body, and look for the source of the sound. We began playing music often throughout the day by radio, playing instruments, and singing, all of which he responded more and more to. Our speech therapist, his teachers, and I soon began singing everything we said to him.

We watched in awe as the power of music brought him back. Just as suddenly as it left, his words came back. One day out of the blue, in a sing song voice, he asked for juice. I cried so hard while he stood there looking at me as if I had lost my mind! Then in a more frustrated tone of sing song, he asked again. I ran to the refrigerator and got it for him, and he sang, “Thank you, Mommy”!

Granted, that was only the beginning, and there was still a great deal of work to be done, as he still did not respond, or seem to know how to communicate his needs consistently, but what a beautiful beginning it was!

He is 10 years old now, and is able to fully communicate. He still has the classic signs of high functioning autism, but through the power of music, he quickly regained his ability to communicate verbally. It was still a very long road from there, as he still often had trouble communicating as he wanted and needed to for several years. He would become very frustrated in trying to find the words, or communicate his feelings. He was a head butter, and a runner. I often wondered how we would ever get through those years, but these days, there are no signs of those behaviors of frustration we saw all those years ago.

Obviously, he still has autism – high functioning autism, but he does not have nearly the challenges that so many professionals expected him to have, all because of the beautiful healing power of music.

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The Ouija Board – A Tool?


I’m sure many of us out there who are interested in, or shown the paranormal side of life have at one time or another played with a Ouija Board. I actually asked for one for one of my young birthdays as a child. My sister and I, along with some of our friends played with it for quite some time before its demise at the hands of my mother by way of the burn pit. (which we were very much in favor of) That was after it had already been thrown out and had reappeared on three different occasions.

We had many experiences with the Ouija Board, none of which were of ANY positive favor. What I learned was, this board seemed to open a portal to darker energies. It was not all like seeing, hearing, etc. all that I did as a child. It was certainly not like the feelings of love that came through with those visiting from the other side, or even the feelings of despair, and fear that I may have felt from those who are stuck here. I still don’t know all the reasons that this seemed to be true in my experiences with the board, but I do know you can communicate with spirits around you without opening some unknown dark portal to lost souls who will literally haunt you for many coming days!

When I asked for it, I was thinking that maybe it could help me control all that I was afraid of, but in retrospect, I think instead, it helped me realize I could find better ways to learn!

I do believe curiosity is sometimes key for some in releasing their fears associated with their own natural abilities, but I also know now it is important to know how to ground yourself and protect yourself especially before doing any work with the lower realms. Growing up psychic meant sometimes learning things the hard way!

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Following Your Intuition


Intuition is something we all have. At some point it I believe it will be acknowledged as one of our actual physical senses. Whether or not you pay attention to your intuition is each our individual choice. For me, thinking about this as a choice seems almost absurd, being that intuition is indeed included among our senses. I mean, do you smell a heavy smell of gas inside a building, and walk in there anyway? Not usually! What about if you see a man with a gun? Do you move towards him anyway, even though you see he is carrying a gun? These thoughts may seem outrageous, but only because both smell and sight are recognized senses, and all accept them as being part of our five senses.

Intuition exists for a reason, just the same as our five acknowledged senses. To not listen to it is to deny its existence, which many do day after day, year after year because someone once dubbed it as being “supernatural” or non existent in all. Those who actually acknowledged having this additional sense, paid attention to it, used it and spoke of it, became the unusual. I would be willing to bet they were also the most successful.

Our senses aid us through life, thus so does our intuition. In order for intuition to be more common place in your day to day life, all you need to do is pay more attention to it, and be grateful for it. It is truly that simple.

There is not one person on this planet who has not experienced their own intuition at least during some point in their life. Intuition is simply that little voice that told you to turn right though you usually turn left last week that kept you safely from a wreck, or the knowing of who is calling on the telephone before it rings, or even just that little voice that helps you make choices based on your feelings about circumstances and situations.

Our intuition is a tool of guidance that is built in to help us stay on our pathway. To not listen to it, is to create your own insurmountable obstacles. Since it is a tool for us in our lives, following it keeps us moving in the right directions.

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Releasing the Negativity


Choosing the pathway to a positive life leads to awakening to your own ability to literally create your world around you. Our thoughts bring forth our emotions, and that combination brings forth a vibration for the universe to match. The pathway to the more fulfilling and positive life starts with changing your thinking patterns, especially your inner dialogue with yourself.

I hear such statements as, “I am trying hard to think positive, but everyone around me is negative!” or “I am surrounding myself with positive people but the negative people keep hanging around!” If your thinking isn’t changing and your emotion isn’t changing, you can find positive people to be around all day long, but what you are attracting remains the same.

Retraining our thinking and emotional patterns takes work, and commitment. As our thinking patterns and emotional patterns change, so does our vibration. We attract things of like vibration. Many of these people will seemingly disappear from your life as your life starts to change, as you are no longer attracting each other.

As for relatives who are negative, I am constantly asked questions in regard to what to do about the effect those may have. It doesn’t mean you have to release these people from your life, as you are brought together for a reason, and to help bring each other growth.

We cannot change other people. We can, however, change within ourselves. The negativity is only absorbed because it is allowed to. What happens when a person is being negative, and it has an impact on us, is the negativity touches on something within ourselves that needs to be resolved, healed, or otherwise let go, and is a sign of work to be done within. Get to the core of why it brings the feelings it brings.

Learn to accept others as they are. By not having an expectation of how someone should be or how they should react to situations, we are releasing any effect they may have on our emotions. Know that when a person is negative, they are manifesting what is within them into their outside life. Once it is seen for what it is, the impact it may have on one diminishes greatly.

Changing our thinking and emotional patterns is a journey of realization as well as a journey of awakening. Though, it does not happen overnight, with constant awareness of your thought patterns, and emotional patterns, you will see it become easier and easier. Pay attention to what is manifested in your life, and as your patterns change, so too will you notice what you are bringing into your life also changes.

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There are many different kinds of dreams, and our dreams do have meanings. The meanings and messages may be from many states of consciousness, as well as many realms. They may come from our sub conscious mind which may be trying to work out complex emotional issues while we are in a state of sleep. They may also be prophetic, visits, as well as offer messages from ourselves to ourselves, and, indeed, to us from others such as our guides, or loved ones who may have passed.

Understanding our dreams helps us unlock that which may have us feeling “stuck”. This understanding often may lead to healing through the letting go of complex emotional feelings from the past. Better understanding our dreams also helps us work through our deepest fears, allowing us the freedom to finally move past those obstacles of fear.

In Dream Interpretations, I use my gifts to pass on messages to your from your guides associated with your dreams as well as draw from the accumulated information I have received in reading for others and helping others to understand their dreams over the years. I, having a very vivid dream life from very early on, have always had a fascination for the messages our dreams hold. Through learning to understand my own dreams, I found I was able to draw information from my gifts to help others understand their dreams as well.

For those who are mediums, dreams may be a way for others to seek a passage way for those wishing to pass on their messages or who may be seeking help. For those who are natural clairvoyants, very urgent and strong messages may come through dreams. (For those seeking help with learning to work with natural mediumship or other psychic abilities, I offer one on one psychic development sessions) for helping you better understand your natural gifts, how to release any fears associated with your gifts, as well as learning to have more control and better utilize them for their intended purposes in your life.

Where dreams are concerned, there are definitely messages. of many types. I am grateful to be able to help others decipher those messages from the mind, as well as those that originate from other realms. I am equally grateful to work with those who have natural gifts to learn to see them as the gifts they truly are.

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Am I a Medium?

>Submitted by a reader of as a comment on Signs of Mediumship:

Hi Beth,

I have been dealing with feeling the presence and seeing them in my dreams. As child I suffered from severe anxiety of the dark because I felt something out of the ordinary I also struggled with nightmares. Now I’m 23 and kind of still suffer from it. It’s just that now I think I have an idea of it. Am I a medium and how can I tell? – Danielle

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You are indeed both a medium and an empath. You are also describing natural clairvoyance. (nightmares and dreams where you see them in activity) These may also help you:  Different Meanings of Psychic Terms, Signs You Are An Empath, and Early Signs of Clairvoyance There are many others as well that may help you better understand your gifts here on this site.

I would love the opportunity to work with you to help you release your fears associated with your gifts as well as to fully realize them, learn better control, and ultimately be able to use them. I offer one on one psychic development sessions for helping others like yourself. Working with others to help them be able to release their fears, work with, and cope with their gifts is my passion. Much love to you…

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What Causes Déjà vu?


The déjà vu experience can actually be caused by more than one thing. It denotes a remembering of something or a familiarity with something that seems out of place or unusual in the current place and time.

Often the experience of déjà vu comes from our dreams. Precognitive or clairvoyant dreams can easily cause the experience, as what is seen within the dream will present itself in real life. Especially when the dreams are associated with events, although it is not uncommon for it to be just a small thing in conversation with someone, for example, that causes the experience, as just a remembering of having done this before.

Déjà vu that has more to do with places, for example, upon going somewhere you have never been, you are oddly and beyond reason familiar with the place, especially the geography of the area, has to do with something much deeper. This type of experience often comes from deep memories of past lives. Having that feeling of “having been here before” is you remembering life in another time.

There is also a sense of déjà vu that is attached to people, meaning there is a feeling of already knowing or having known a person that you have never actually met here and now. This can be attributed to several different scenarios, with one being that you actually did know each other in a past life, and another being that you have a soul memory of the knowledge you have planned to connect here and now.

For those who experience déjà vu, it is a very strong and often unsettling experience, as it is like having a memory, without remembering all the details. I have often known those who experienced it, and had their lives completely change from the experience, especially after seeking more validation of their “remembering” through avenues such as past life regressions, and even past life readings. The change within brings better understanding of there actually being purpose to each life experience, as well as upon how this experience expands on other experiences.

No matter the reason for the experience, I find the remembrance associated with déjà vu to be fascinating, as well as holding so much opportunity for learning and growth in understanding.

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Get in Touch With You


Truly knowing yourself is half the battle when it comes to living the life of your dreams. The more you know yourself, the more you are able to empower yourself. If you know yourself, then you know what motivates you, what environments most stimulate you, energize you, and inspire you. You also know what you love, what excites you, and what makes you feel at peace.

We are truly serving when we are being true to who we are. When we are doing what we love we are radiating happiness, and extremely positive vibrations. Through doing what we love, we share our true selves, and in turn, whether it is our intent or not, we help others. There is no point from which you can start doing what you love that doesn’t ultimately bring you to the same point within where you realize your ability to create your life around you.

The natural law of attraction basically matches your vibration, no matter whether that vibration is positive or negative. The universe does not distinguish between the two. It only matches it. If you are enjoying what you are spending your time doing, then your vibration is naturally more positive, and thus brings more positive manifestations. It is really hard not to be in a good mood or exude positive vibrations if you are doing what you love doing. Abundance also flows much easier when you are serving through your natural talents and gifts.

Beyond just getting in touch with you, you must also be willing to accept you. Sometimes that very step may be the hardest part as you may be one of the many who are unwilling to accept those things that you actually do well, you do well for a reason. You may even be one of the ones who think your talents don’t fit in with the real world, and what you have to do to make a living, and what you enjoy or have talents in, are not related at all! But the truth is, if there wasn’t a place for it in your life, and you weren’t meant to use those talents and gifts to the best benefit for your life, you simply would not have them! A good portion of the journey of getting in touch with you, and ultimately living the life of your dreams, is learning to trust, and learning to believe in yourself to the extent you did before you actually came here!

We are all special in our very own unique ways, and we all have talents and gifts to offer in service to the world. We all have several pathways to choose from. Why not choose the path of your heart, and fully use all that you have brought with you here to use in this lifetime?

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